Is it really necessary to be rude? (Part 2)

I have been really really occupied this past few weeks. Just when I thought my weekend was starting, I suddenly had one long list of "To-Do" to be done during the weekend. Then came Monday when the ball started rolling again - this time with a different ball game, a different drama, a different roller-coaster . So it's a cycle. So, those are my excuses for not updating the blog. Not that I have lost interest, but my life has been pretty hectic lately. Plus, it's not that I have such a colorful life like a rock star or something where every step is to blog about. I am just a plain Jane remember?

A couple of postings before, I remember blogging about how UNCOOL it is to be RUDE. And the topic surfaced again today. Me and a few colleagues were talking about it (more like email-gossiping) about how rudely another person was behaving in a session with another group of colleagues. Well, as that was not the first time similar incident took place, so we were pretty ready for it. After all, this person's rude behavior  has already been the talk of the town. 

But the question is - WHY? Why is it that 'si polan' itu needs to behave in such a way? Can't a strong message be delivered in a more docile manner? Well these are some of the questions to be pondered which require your little attention:

1. Do you know that other people from your side thought that it was utterly uncool to see you treating those people like that? Not only that we feel sorry for those people, but we smirk negatively in our heart to see you clowning yourself like that. 
2. Do you know that your behavior reflects badly on your other team members (who are mostly bersopan & pemalu as how Mas put it) as well as your ORGANISATION?  
3. And do you know that people do not expect you to  behave like that since you are holding such a high position in this organisation? 
4. Do you know that you had successfully reflect yourself negatively, not just by those people that you were rude at, but also to your other colleagues?
5. Do you realise that your behavior will only make people wonder how your parents brought you up?
6. Lastly, do you even remember that you are dealing with another group of human being, who have feelings and do not appreciate to be humiliated in front of 10 other people? 
7. Does your thick brain (yang kononnya berpelajaran tinggi itu) ever thought about that? Where is your moral standing?
8. DO YOU LIKE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT? 

I only have one thing and one thing only to learn from all these. No matter how good and outstanding you are, how pretty you are and how "I-know-all" you are - you will not deserve the respect that you should deserve if your moral value is under your feet - and that include being disrespectful to another person/s. 

Signing off - nmn